As far as the opening the door from the inside, I had to fix that myself after replacing the speakers in the door. There is a cable from the handle to the door. It needs to be clipped in place at the handle, but also further down on the door. I clipped it at the top only and closed up the door card. Then it wouldn't open

Popped open the door card and secured the cable on the door and it fixed it.
Your other problems sound like some electrical issues. Did you just recently get the car?
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