Ladies , can any of you sympathize with this girl

[Bugman]

i know this girl , and thought some of her writings may stike a cord with other ladies here , i know its not new beetle related , but i thought it was some good stuff to share

NewKJ | A New Engagement

[Oh Randi]

Thanks for posting. I enjoyed reading it.

I can't imagine how heartbroken I'd be if I were in that situation. That is exactly the reason I'm terrified of marriage. I have such a huge fear or being blindsided by something like that. :/

[Bugman]

nothin wrong with marrriage , just some of the idiots out there, just take your time and dont be in a hurry ,, and as i tell my wife , dont pass up the frog ,, look how it worked out for her ,,lol

[Smileybug]

Originally Posted by Bugman

nothin wrong with marrriage , just some of the idiots out there, just take your time and dont be in a hurry ,, and as i tell my wife , dont pass up the frog ,, look how it worked out for her ,,lol

QFT. Take your time and get to know the person. Hubby and I got together young (we were 15) and didn't get married until we were 23. (not saying I advocate taking 8 years haha). And honestly, nothing really changed after that piece of paper was signed because we were already best friends for so long and lived together for a couple of years. I had some serious trust issues before getting together with my husband...very low self esteem and my only other bf "cheated" on me (it was 6th grade so doesn't really count I guess, but it still hurt me pretty bad). But he really worked hard at getting me and reassuring me that he wasn't looking for anyone else. We'll be together 10 years this summer <3