No trouble finding the triple-square bit, they had them at Baxter's (local auto parts chain), I guess NAPA has them at some stores as well. FYI, the bolts that hold in the door lock assembly take an 8 mm bit, the one I got cost just under 4 bucks and has a 3 inch shank that fits into a 1/2 inch socket. I was able to use a T-20 on the small bolt that holds in the lock cylinder.
Disassembling the door was not too difficult, between the Bentley and this post:
How To: Door panel, window regulator and door latch removal
Biggest problem I had was that the last person who removed the door carrier torqued the screws pretty tight and I had to drill one out. I noticed he didn't put all 11 of them back in either, there were 4 missing.
Based on some posts in other VW forums, I disassembled the lock module and checked for bad solder joints, unfortunately they all looked good. Based on an ohmmeter check it looks like the microswitch that senses if the door is latched is broken. One of those posts talked about replacing it with a switch from Radio Shack, but that looked like a dicey proposition. I'm not 100% sure I could get the module back together in working order anyway. With hindsight, I wouldn't recommend attempting to repair it unless you are REALLY careful taking it apart and are broke enough to not want to buy a new module.
So I had to drive my kids' beater Subaru to work today and will swing by the dealer to pick up a new lock module. $199!!!